Somewhere Beautiful:
a place to honour your child

Somewhere Beautiful is a permanent remembrance mural at QueenCare’s Mothering Centre, created for families who have experienced pregnancy, infant, or child loss.

Hand-painted butterfly surrounded by wildflowers
Hand-painted butterfly surrounded by wildflowers

"...Ultimately, this mural is not intended to make grief neat or beautiful. It is meant to make room for it - to create a place where loss can be acknowledged, and where love can remain visible..." Chelsea O'Connor | Artist for a Year

Inside the Hallway

Take a little look inside Somewhere Beautiful—a dedicated hallway where every hand-painted memento represents a child who is loved, remembered, and held within the landscape.

Wildflowers painted within the mural
Wildflowers painted within the mural
Two rabbits sitting together in the painted meadow
Two rabbits sitting together in the painted meadow

Honour Your
Loved One

Families are invited to request a memento to be lovingly hand-painted within the mural in memory of their baby—perhaps a butterfly, dragonfly, ladybug, or another symbol chosen in collaboration with the artist. Each memento can be personalized with your baby’s name or another meaningful detail.

Wide view of the remembrance mural
Wide view of the remembrance mural

Artist & Vision

Artist's Statement

This mural was created as a landscape for remembrance—a place where grief, love, and life can exist together.

I chose a loose, realistic impressionistic style, allowing visible brushstrokes, imperfect lines, familiar flowers, animals, and the recognizable textures of the natural world to remain expressive rather than precise. There is a messiness to the painting that reflects the messiness of grief itself. The layers of the landscape rise and fall unevenly across the walls, echoing the way grief moves: up and down, forward and backward, changing from one moment to the next.

At the heart of the mural are the butterflies, each representing a baby who was here and who continues to hold a very real place in the life of their family. I wanted to place them within a landscape where their mothers could imagine them being—a peaceful, familiar place that might exist beyond the walls of QueenCare. My hope is that a walk through a meadow, the sight of a butterfly, a willow tree, or familiar wildflowers might become another place to feel close to them.

The butterflies themselves are intentionally tactile. They were created with raised texture so that they emerge physically from the wall and can be touched and held beneath a hand. This was important to me as a loss Mom myself. A mother can reach out and feel the butterfly that represents her child—not simply see a painted symbol. It is a small but tangible acknowledgement that this baby was real, this love is real, and their place in their mother’s and families life remains real.

The willow tree was designed to grow around and over the doorway, with one long branch reaching across it almost like an arm around someone’s shoulders. It is meant to offer the quiet gesture of a friend who may not have the words to make grief better, but can stand beside you, put an arm around you, and offer comfort.

Ultimately, this mural is not intended to make grief neat or beautiful. It is meant to make room for it—to create a place where loss can be acknowledged, where love can remain visible, and where these babies can continue to have a place within the landscape of their families’ lives.

While the original vision for this mural was conceived by QueenCare’s founder, it has been my deep and enduring honour to help bring it to life as part of a profoundly meaningful and loving community project—one with the power to lighten the burden of loss, create space for grief, and help build a community and society in which grieving mothers and families feel more seen, held, and supported.

Chelsea O'Connor
Artist for a Year

FAQs

Who is this space for?
This space is for families who have experienced pregnancy, infant, or child loss. Whether your loss was recent or many years ago, there is room for your remembrance here.

What is a memento?
A memento is a hand-painted symbol added to the mural in memory of your baby or child. It might be a butterfly, dragonfly, ladybug, or another meaningful symbol chosen that is cohesive to the meadow.

Can I request a memento if my baby was not named?
Yes. You do not need to have chosen a name to honour your baby. A symbol can hold that love and remembrance on its own.

Can I choose the colour and include my child’s name?
Yes. The request form lets you share your preferred symbol, main colour, placement, and whether you would like your child’s name written beside it. You can also share other meaningful details. The artist may suggest adjustments to help your memento fit naturally within the meadow.

How do I request a memento?
Select Request a Memento and complete the form. You’ll be asked for contact information, the loss or delivery date, and your memento preferences. QueenCare will be in touch after you submit your request.

When will my memento be painted?
Mementos are added to the mural quarterly. Your request will become part of an upcoming painting round rather than being painted immediately. We will contact you and keep you updated along the process!

Can I visit the mural?
Absolutely! Somewhere Beautiful is located within QueenCare's Mothering Centre, at 5 Pine St, Brockville, ON. Family and friends are welcome to visit anytime within opening hours:

TUES - THURS: 10am - 4pm
FRI: 10am - 2pm

What if I have questions or need support?
You are welcome to reach out, whether you are ready to request a memento or simply want to learn more. Use the contact form below or call us at
613-803-8073.

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QueenCare is a registered charity with the CRA: #736548413RR0001